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Health Anxiety: When Worry About Your Body Takes Over
You notice something. A sensation in your chest. A headache that feels different from the last one. A mole that maybe wasn't quite that colour before. And your mind goes somewhere dark. Fast. Google opens. You type in the symptom. You find the page that confirms your worst fear. And for a few hours — or days — you can't think about anything else. Tests come back clear. The doctor says you're fine. And for a little while, you feel better. But then something else appears, and i
Ian Smith
1 day ago4 min read


Grief Counselling: You Don't Have to Do This Alone
Grief is not a problem to be solved. It's not a phase to push through as quickly as possible. And it's not something you should be over by now. But it can become something you carry a little more easily — especially when you have the right support. What Is Grief Counselling? Grief counselling is a form of talking therapy for people who are experiencing loss. It gives you a space to feel what you're feeling without having to manage anyone else's reaction to it. A grief counsel
Ian Smith
3 days ago4 min read


Generalised Anxiety Disorder: What It Is and How to Get Help
Everyone worries. That's human. But for most people, the worry is about something specific. A problem arrives, they worry about it, the problem resolves, and the worry eases. For people with generalised anxiety disorder — GAD — it doesn't work like that. The worry is always there. It moves from one thing to the next like water finding a new container. The job, the money, the health, the relationship, the kids, the future, the past. Something is always going wrong, or about to
Ian Smith
5 days ago5 min read


Depression Counselling: What to Expect
Depression is hard to describe to someone who hasn't experienced it. It's not just sadness. It can feel like flatness — a kind of grey absence where feelings used to be. Or exhaustion that sleep doesn't fix. Or a voice that says nothing you do matters, and there's no particular reason to try. If that sounds familiar, you're not alone. And it's not something you have to manage on your own. What Is Depression Counselling? Depression counselling is a talking therapy for people e
Ian Smith
Oct 14 min read


Anxiety and Physical Symptoms: What Your Body Is Telling You
Anxiety isn't only in your head. These anxiety physical symptoms are real, even when your body checks out fine. If you've ever felt your heart hammer before a difficult conversation, or had to rush to the bathroom before something nerve-racking, or noticed your shoulders are permanently up around your ears — you already know that. But for some people, the physical symptoms of anxiety are so prominent that they become the main story. The headache that won't go. The chest tight
Ian Smith
Sep 295 min read


Anxiety Counselling in Dorset: What to Expect
Anxiety is exhausting. And when it's been going on for a while, it can be hard to imagine that anything could actually shift it. Anxiety counselling Dorset can help you get there, whatever's been driving it. Counselling doesn't promise to make anxiety disappear. What it can do is help you understand why it's there, change your relationship to it, and find ways of living that aren't shaped by it at every turn. If you're thinking about anxiety counselling in Dorset and you're n
Ian Smith
Sep 274 min read


Young People and Anxiety: Knowing When to Get Help
Anxiety in young people is more common than most people realise. And it's often less visible than you'd expect. Young people and anxiety often go together quietly, without anyone quite naming it. It doesn't always look like visible fear. It can look like school refusal, anger, withdrawal, physical illness, or simply a slow disappearance from the things and people that used to matter. The young person themselves might not have the word "anxiety" for what they're experiencing —
Ian Smith
Sep 244 min read


Back to School After a Hard Year: Supporting Your Child's Mental Health
Not every child arrives at September in the same place. Back to school mental health struggles are more common than most parents realise. Some have had a straightforward summer. Others are carrying something — a bereavement, a family breakdown, a period of illness, a friendship that ended badly, something that happened that they haven't been able to put down. And now school is starting again, and the world is expecting them to pick up where they left off. If your child has ha
Ian Smith
Sep 225 min read


Anxiety at Work: When Stress Becomes Something More
There's a version of work stress that most people know. A deadline piling up. A difficult conversation to have. A week where everything lands at once. That's normal. It's unpleasant, but it's the kind of thing that passes when the pressure eases. But some people find the pressure never eases. The worry follows them home. It's there when they wake up at 3am. It stops them enjoying their evenings, their weekends, their time away from work — because their mind is never away from
Ian Smith
Sep 204 min read


Counselling for Children and Young People in Dorset
When a child is struggling, it's one of the hardest things a parent can face. You want to help, but you're not always sure what help looks like — or whether they'd even be willing to talk to someone. Counselling for children and young people Dorset families turn to can make this easier — for both of you. Counselling for children and young people isn't the same as adult therapy. It's adapted for where they are: their age, their communication style, and how they make sense of t
Ian Smith
Sep 174 min read


Anxiety and Sleep: Why Your Mind Won't Switch Off
It's 2am and you've been awake for two hours. Anxiety and sleep feed each other, and breaking that cycle starts with understanding it. Your body is exhausted. Your mind is going at full speed. You're running through something that happened yesterday, planning tomorrow, worrying about next week. Or sometimes there's no specific thought at all — just a low, humming sense of unease that won't let you settle. By the time you do fall asleep, it's almost time to get up. And you sta
Ian Smith
Sep 135 min read


Anxiety in Teenagers: Signs Parents Need to Know
Most teenagers have moments of worry. Exams. Friendships. The constant pressure of figuring out who they are. Anxiety in teenagers doesn't always look the way you'd expect. But sometimes anxiety goes beyond normal worry. It starts affecting sleep, school, friendships, and the ability to get through the day. And because teenagers often don't say "I think I have anxiety," parents can find it hard to know what's actually happening. This post is for parents who sense something is
Ian Smith
Sep 114 min read


GCSEs and Mental Health: What Parents Need to Know
GCSEs are the most academically pressured two years most teenagers will have experienced so far. And the pressure doesn't just come from the exams themselves — it comes from everywhere. Teachers. Friends. Social media. The general sense that what happens in a few months in May will define what comes next. Most teenagers carry some GCSE stress. But there's a point where stress tips into something that affects sleep, physical health, mood, and the ability to function — and that
Ian Smith
Sep 84 min read


When School Feels Impossible: Supporting a Child With Anxiety
There are children who struggle with school in a way that's hard to describe from the outside. They're not refusing in the way you'd imagine. They go — or they try to. But every morning is a battle. Every Sunday evening is shadowed. And slowly, the gap between what they can manage and what school requires keeps widening. If that's your child, you'll already know that telling them to push through doesn't work. And you'll probably have noticed that the harder you push, the wors
Ian Smith
Sep 85 min read


Anxiety and Relationships: How Worry Affects the People Around You
Anxiety is often described as a personal experience. Something happening inside one person's head. But anxiety doesn't stay inside one head. It moves through relationships. It shapes conversations, patterns of closeness and distance, the way you ask for reassurance, the way you avoid conflict, the way you need things to be certain when certainty isn't available. If you live with anxiety — or love someone who does — this probably sounds familiar. How Anxiety Affects Relationsh
Ian Smith
Sep 64 min read


What Anxiety Counselling in Wimborne Can Offer
Anxiety counselling in Wimborne offers confidential, relationship-led support to understand worry, reduce overwhelm and build tools for everyday life, too.
Ian Smith
Sep 66 min read


Separation Anxiety at School: A Guide for Parents
Separation Anxiety at School: A Guide for Parents
Ian Smith
Sep 35 min read


Starting Secondary School: Helping an Anxious Child
The summer before secondary school is a strange time. Exciting for some children. For others, it's just weeks of dread building quietly behind the surface. If your child is one of the anxious ones, you'll know it. The questions that start months in advance. The what-ifs that multiply at bedtime. The way they tense up when secondary school gets mentioned. This post is for parents who are trying to help and aren't sure what actually works. Why is the secondary school transition
Ian Smith
Aug 315 min read


Social Anxiety: Why It's More Than Just Shyness
Most people feel nervous in social situations sometimes. A job interview. A first date. Speaking up in a meeting full of strangers. That's normal. And it passes. Social anxiety is different. It doesn't pass when the situation ends. It follows you home, replays the conversation, finds everything you did wrong, and starts building dread for the next time. For some people, it shapes their whole life — what they apply for, who they spend time with, what they're willing to try. Ca
Ian Smith
Aug 295 min read


School Refusal (EBSA): When Your Child Won't Go In To School.
School Refusal (EBSA): When Your Child Won't Go In To School.
Ian Smith
Aug 274 min read

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